German Brides โ€” How To Find Them And What To Know About Them

Some Americans say that German women are too conservative and hard to talk to. The others say that they are as open as anyone can be and perfect for both casual dating and serious relationships. As usual, the truth lies somewhere in between โ€” there are both open-minded and reserved German women, both girls who are searching for casual sex and women who are looking for long-term relationships. Want to know more about beautiful German mail order brides? Continue reading โ€” weโ€™ll tell you literally everything you need to know about them!

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Hot German women: how to find them

If you need a step-by-step guide on how to date German mail order brides, here it is. Itโ€™s actually very simple, and international dating is actually very similar to online dating in the United States. Letโ€™s talk about it.

  1. First, youโ€™ll have to choose a decent website with beautiful German brides to find a hot wife online. Read the reviews, check if the platform is safe or not, pay attention to the price โ€” it should be not too high and not too low at the same time. Donโ€™t forget to test the dating site โ€” most of them have special offers for the new users, so you wonโ€™t have to pay anything for testing.
  2. After that, start chatting with hot German women. At this stage, itโ€™s 100% similar to American dating websites like Match or Tinder โ€” you find a lady you like most, chat with her, video call her, send her virtual or real gifts, etc.
  3. Then, everything is simple โ€” you arrange a date, visit Germany, and meet the woman (or women) you like. After that, you will be able to bring your wife or bride to the United States and even make her a citizen of the US. Weโ€™ll talk about it later in more detail.

German women for marriage: interesting facts

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Of course, in Germany girls for marriage are different, and of course, there are lots of interesting facts you have to know before you start dating them. What does dating culture look like in this country? Do they have racial dating preferences? And what else do you have to know about them?

  • There is actually no dating culture in this country. We are not even talking about the whole "casual dating thing" when you can have multiple partners at the same time (and possibly even sleep with all of them) โ€” such relationships are extremely rare in this country, so don't even think about it if you're going to find German ladies for marriage. We are talking about something less casual, like "dating", "going out", and, you know, "seeing each other" โ€” German people tend to "be in a relationship" instead, and they take the relationships much more seriously.
  • Beautiful German women are often called shy and reserved, especially on the first dates. We don't want to say that all German women are like this, but here's the fact: many foreigners say that when single German ladies are on a date with someone from another country, they often seem a bit reserved, especially when it comes to the very first dates. But the thing is: even if they look shy, it doesn't mean that they don't like you or that they are not interested in you. That's just the way the Germans are โ€” their culture is often called "coconut", as well as Russian and French cultures. People from such cultures are quite "hard" on the outside, they don't smile too much to people they don't know, and they tend to keep to themselves, while people from "peach" cultures (like the United States and Brazil) are usually more friendly to the strangers and therefore more open on the first dates. But when you break this ice, your German girlfriend will become loyal, friendly, and very sincere.
  • German brides donโ€™t use as much makeup as women from some other European countries. While Eastern European women usually wear a lot of makeup (even when it comes to daily life), German women are not like that. They tend to stay minimal and modest, they focus on natural beauty, and you won't see a German girl who wears heavy makeup with bright colors.
  • According to the statistics, 56% of the German population speak English. This is definitely good news โ€” because the language barrier is a very serious problem for American men who want to find a wife from another country. With German brides, you donโ€™t have to worry about it โ€” most of them speak English fluently.
  • They prefer long-term relationships โ€” as weโ€™ve already said, most Germans have serious intentions. But itโ€™s not like Germany is a very conservative country in this regard. Thus, many Germans see nothing wrong in one-night stands and casual sex is mostly ok in Germany. Yes, there are regional differences (like, the South is usually more conservative than the North), but it's not like the differences in the US where the sex culture varies greatly from state to state.
  • German brides don't have any problems with dating people of other nationalities and religions. Modern Germany is a very liberal country with progressive equality, and of course, German women for marriage don't have any racial dating preferences and prejudices. In some regions, such as South and Southeastern Asia, people often have anti-black racism, and in many Arab countries, women are not allowed to marry men of other nationalities and religions. In Germany, you don't have to worry about it.
  • Most beautiful German brides are very direct and straightforward. If there's anything your German gf or wife doesn't like, you'll know about it, even if it can make you feel uncomfortable.
  • German women don't expect to be taken out for several fancy dinners which a man must pay before they can kiss him, there are no three-dates or five-dates rules here, and beautiful German women don't usually play all those mind games and send signals. You simply ask a woman out, have a good time together, and the things happen, that's how it works here.
  • They love debating, especially when it comes to intellectual debate topics. Youโ€™ll probably lose the debate, especially if youโ€™ll have to speak German, but donโ€™t worry about it and donโ€™t take it personally.

German brides: top dating rules

How to date German women and what do you need to know before you get a German mail order wife? Weโ€™ll tell you here.

    1. You donโ€™t have to take the lead and to make the first move with German brides. Men still initiate things most of the time, but itโ€™s not a rule โ€” this is a country with a very high index of gender equality, so thereโ€™s no such thing as "men should lead and women should follow" here.
    2. Donโ€™t talk about history or politics too much on the first date. We donโ€™t think anybody does that, but who knows? These topics are not the best ones for the first date with a woman from any country, but with Germany, it can become even more uncomfortable. What if you two will accidentally find out your grandfathers fought against each other in WWII?
    3. Never be late! German brides always come in time, like, in 95% of cases. If you have a date with one of them, you are expected to be on time as well โ€” and if she finds out you are not punctual at all, that will probably be a red flag.
    4. Small talk is not the best option. Celebrities? The weather? Forget about these topics. These women are educated and smart, and they don't want to waste time talking about boring things. They want to connect with a man intellectually, so be prepared for deep conversations that will be interesting for the two of you.
    5. Compliments are ok. Yes, many of them are feminist and most of them think that gender equality is extremely important. But it doesn't mean that they don't want to feel appreciated! To be fair, German men are not that good at flirting, so if you are good at compliments, use it to your advantage!
    6. As weโ€™ve already said, these women are often called shy and reserved and it means that youโ€™ll have to break this ice. Be direct with your intentions, always be on time, do your best and look great, make compliments, and show that you are a good man โ€” and when you'll break through the ice, you'll love what you see here.
    7. Show that you are confident, financially stable, and passionate about your career and future plans. Itโ€™s not about gold-digging and itโ€™s not about wanting to leave Germany to get a better life โ€” beautiful German women already live in a successful and economically stable country.
    8. Be creative about the location of your first date. And be ready to spend at least 100 EUR โ€” it shouldn't be a very expensive place, but it also can't be a cheap cafe. Picking the right location is very important because of two reasons. First, a good restaurant with a good, friendly atmosphere will inspire conversation, and that's what you need on the first date. And the second reason is simple: German brides like it and appreciate it when a man invests some effort in picking the right location.
    9. Be a gentleman. Of course, she'll tell you that she can split the bill, but does it mean that she doesn't want to find a real gentleman? Talk like a gentleman, listen to her, dress your best, be confident, offer to pay for the dinner โ€” it's simple, really.