Vietnamese Brides: Full Guide, Tips, And Advice

Are you fond of Asian cuties? Do you really want to find a hot Vietnamese woman for marriage? Do you think that all those pretty Vietnamese brides are some kind of magical women from a magic country who are 100% shy and obedient, who never cheat and adore American men?

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Well, you are wrong. These are stereotypes, and they are 100% wrong. People are always people, there are lots of good women in Vietnam, but we can't say that 100% of them are like this or like that. There are, of course, some gold-diggers in this country (as well as in any other country), some women who don't know English at all, and some unloyal women. Unfortunately, that's how it works โ€” there are no countries with perfect women. Not to mention that the idea of deciding to marry a woman because she is Vietnamese sounds a bit weird. However, that's not what we're going to talk about here.

Here, weโ€™ll talk about Vietnamese mail order brides โ€” most of them can speak English well, most of them are loyal, and most of them search for a serious relationship with a decent man, not for an ATM. Letโ€™s begin.

Vietnamese brides: dating tips

If you are an American who wants to date/marry a woman from this Asian country, there are two things you have to know. The first one is: Vietnamese women are different โ€” they have a different dating culture and dating etiquette, they have different traditions, and they actually live in a different cultural background. The second one is: these women are still women โ€” they love it when a man is respectful, when a man is interesting to talk to, etc. So, when it comes to dating Vietnamese, itโ€™s not that easy โ€” but itโ€™s also not as hard as you might think. The following tips will help you make it even easier.

  • Learn Vietnamese and (which is even more important) learn Vietnamese culture a bit. The more you know about it, the easier it will be for you to understand these women, and the easier it will be for you to cope with that notorious language barrier problem. Yes, itโ€™s quite a hard language to learn, especially for those who have never learned any Asian languages, but who says that you must be fluent in Vietnamese? A few common words, phrases, and expressions will be enough.
  • They are not as conservative as you probably think (if we are not talking about the girls in the countryside, of course). So don't get caught in the stereotype trap and donโ€™t expect to get a shy and obedient woman who will always do what you want. Yes, itโ€™s quite possible that youโ€™ll find her, but most of Vietnamese brides are nothing like it.
  • Flowers always work perfectly, as well as gifts. Even if it sounds a bit obsolete and all that, it still works in Asian countries (as well as in Eastern Europe and in Latin America). So if you want to make a good first impression, buy her a bouquet of her favorite flowers. Youโ€™ve already asked what her favorite flower is, havenโ€™t you?
  • Donโ€™t spend too much. Bragging about money is annoying, but it still works in Vietnam. However, thatโ€™s not what you need โ€” if you are searching for Vietnamese brides for marriage, you donโ€™t want them to fall for your money, you want them to fall for you. A coffee date is a better first date than a night in a fancy restaurant in a long-term perspective.
  • Choose a decent and trusted website with Vietnamese brides for sale. Yes, itโ€™s obvious, but thatโ€™s the rule many Americans ignore โ€” they choose the first website they see in Google search results, chat with fake profiles, and lose money. Thatโ€™s definitely not what you want to get from a dating service โ€” so read some reviews and test the websites yourself to choose the best one.

The most interesting facts about Vietnamese brides

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Before you start looking for Vietnamese brides, you should know more about them. After all, these women differ from women who live in the United States, so you should understand these differences if you don't want to screw up. Let's talk about them.

  1. Supporting the family is a tradition that just canโ€™t be missed. It doesn't mean that you'll have to send them thousands of dollars every single month (but some men do it). It just means that you'll have to support the family of your wife in case they need your help, it's simple as that.
  2. As youโ€™ve already guessed, the family is extremely important for these women. So, if the family of your Vietnamese girlfriend doesnโ€™t like you, well, itโ€™s bad news. There are quite high chances that her family won't like you because you are not the same religion and not the same race โ€” it's sad, but that's how it works in this country, especially when it comes to the families who don't live in the major Vietnam cities. Thatโ€™s why we recommend you find a Vietnamese woman for marriage who lives in the capital of Vietnam. Young women who live in Hanoi are a bit more independent in this regard.
  3. Bringing her parents a gift is a must-do and you just canโ€™t ignore it. If you want your Vietnamese gf to become your Vietnamese wife, you have to make her parents like you. In Vietnam, โ€œmake her family like youโ€ means โ€œbuy her family expensive giftsโ€.
  4. One-night stands are very rare. Like, really rare โ€” especially outside major cities. If you are going to find a one-night stand, check out Little Japan and other red-light districts โ€” there are thousands of hostess girls and freelancing girls who will not have any problems with spending a fun night with you.
  5. PDA is not a big thing in Vietnam. It's not a big problem for the younger generation, but the traditions are still strong in Vietnam โ€” so if you are going to kiss your Vietnamese gf in public, well, think twice. Holding hands is ok, however.
  6. They donโ€™t just want to โ€œdateโ€ โ€” they want to date someone who has serious plans. Casual dating is not for Vietnamese brides โ€” we can't say that about 100% of young ladies who live in this country, but the absolute majority of them want something more serious, especially if they are older than 20 years old.
  7. If your girlfriend has a traditional family, everything becomes even more serious. In such a case, there is simply no โ€œdatingโ€ โ€” once you ask her out, you are already on your way to marriage.
  8. Yes, some of them are interested in your wallet and in your passport more than in you. Of course, you cannot buy a Vietnamese bride for marriage โ€” but unfortunately, there are gold-diggers in every country and Vietnam isnโ€™t worse than other Asian countries in this regard.
  9. Many of them know English quite well. Women with advanced and fluent English are the women you're looking for. Unfortunately, if you date a Vietnamese bride who doesnโ€™t speak English fluently, it will be frustrating to communicate with her because you will not be able to discuss meaningful topics or even tell each other about your feelings. So, be selective when it comes to the Vietnamese bridesโ€™ levels of English.
  10. Silky black hair, hot bodies, beautiful faces, etc. โ€” most of these women (and the absolute majority of them, when it comes to hot Vietnamese mail order wives) are extremely beautiful and hot. Well, we won't even focus on their beauty here โ€” you probably know it already. Just browse the profiles of hot mail order brides on literally any mail bride website and youโ€™ll see what weโ€™re talking about here.